The world puts ridiculous expectations on women, especially driven career moms who are trying to balance family, career, relationships, and their own life.
If you’re like I was, you are probably exhausted by the challenge to be everywhere and do everything for everyone.
You give, and give, and give of yourself and at the end of the day you feel drained and maybe like you haven’t accomplished a fraction of what you wanted to. Pleasing, performing, and perfecting aren’t new to you either.
Perhaps you even shrink yourself down because you’re convinced the world doesn’t reward a woman who plays it big and gets loud.
But you landed here for a reason.
And that reason is that you know you deserve more.
You know that the more time you spend working towards everyone else’s dreams, the less time there is left for you and yours.
You’re not alone.
I know what it's like to feel the need to perform beyond expectations – the drive to provide incredible deliverables, only to end up feeling depleted and insecure.
I know what it's like to spread yourself so thin it feels like there's not enough hours in the day to ever catch up. And learning the hard way that no schedule, no planner, no device can fix it.
I, too, have brought my child to work, had my daughter sleep in my lap while writing emails, snapped at my kids for laughing… yes, for laughing.
Taking work on vacation? Yep. Been there.
I know what it's like to fantasize about running your own show (thinking it will change everything) only to find out how much MORE work it is and then pray for those 40-hour workweeks again.
And I know what it's like to give up my mojo to all the wrong people, which for me, resulted in being entangled in abusive marriages. But the lesson here is that the habit of pleasing, performing, and perfecting can spin wildly out of control with very little effort on our part. And what was initially a driven, busy woman can very quickly become:
- Giving away our magic
- Becoming snappy or pushing others away
- Overwhelm that leads us to numb ourselves with toxic behaviors
- Confidence dips that become depressive episodes
- Rumination that deflates our happiness
- Resentment toward our own children for needing us
- Guilt and shame for never filling expectations
And that's why it's so important to have a community space to explore:
How we buy into this programming in the first place
What we can do to empower ourselves and each other
Make changes to our belief patterns
Strengthen our confidence and resolve though community
Get ongoing access to a space that supports your new way of being
I want to see women like you succeed and transform your drive into real results, just like I did.
Unlike other groups where you’d have to do all the heavy lifting, Wild Femme Alliance is guided by an active coach who brings you the gift of extended conversations with other experts in the field of self-actualization.
Imagine being one of a few women who enjoy frequent, direct contact with a high-performance coach and other high-earning career moms who you want to network with.
Aligned, you will feel energized to say hell yes to the things that ignite your passion and hell no to the things that drain your energy.
Our Alliance connects you with these and other like-minded leaders in a few simple clicks.
Perhaps best of all, is the intimate size of the membership which helps you get the most out of every interaction.
You’re probably itching to learn more about what’s included in your new membership…